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Monday, March 03, 2008

Sweet Dreams!

Do you remember your worst nightmare when you were little?

 

I may still have vivid memories of some of my worst nightmares from when I was younger.  Some of the nightmares involved being chased by a creepy-looking man, my mother dying, or being raped by Superman -- yes, I really did have a dream about that.

 

Do you remember any dreams that made you wake up crying?  I know the dream of my mother dying certainly did.

 

Anyway, to get to the point, my mom told me about a “nightmare” that my 10-year-old niece, Madison, had over the weekend.   And I’m sorry to say that it’s TOO FUNNY not to share.  This is an excerpt of my IM conversation with my mom:

 

Mom:  Madison had a terrible dream on Saturday night.  She got up Sunday morning crying.  In her dream, Kelly (her mom, my sister) dyed her hair blond and it was a terrible job.  She said Kelly was wearing a skimpy, very tight red dress and smoking a cigar, and talking to a man about buying a Lamborgini for $1,000,000.  I died laughing but Madison was so upset.

Me: LOL, oh my god! Im literally laughing out loud!!!!

Me: just to picture Kelly like that!

Me: and she calls THAT a bad dream!??!

Mom: to her it was

Me: ohhh!!!! that's HILARIOUS!

Mom: I know.  and you can imagine Madison, with all her drama, telling the story with tears in her eyes.

 

Funny how some people interpret their own dreams….


Tuesday, February 26, 2008

The last few days have been crazy for both Tom and I.  We felt as though our worlds had been turned upside down starting last Thursday.  Here is a timeline of the events that occurred:

Thursday night:  Tom fell ill and went to bed at 8 pm

Friday: After Tom slept all day, took him to the doctor after I got off work only to find out that he had some sort of viral infection and the only thing we could do was to let it run its course.  Drink plenty of water, rest alot and stay away from each other were the doctor's orders.

Saturday: Spent the entire day/night with all my lonesome since Tom did not get out of bed once.

Sunday: Tom starts feeling better and looked like he was on the road to recovery.  In the evening, I went to rent a movie for both of us at Blockbuster's and got into a car wreck on the way home.  My fault, my bad...I really don't want to go into details, sigh.  Spent the evening at the hospital to make sure the baby was okay and all was well.  Me and baby are fine...jeep is a mess.

Monday: Just when things couldn't get any worse, I came home during lunch break to find Chelsea bleeding profusely in the kitchen.  At first, I thought that she might've started her period, but it was indeed too early for that.  Studied Chelsea further and found blood on the neck, on her forehead, on her paws.  Finally found the source and it was coming from one of her ears.  Apparently, Chester and Chelsea must've gotten into a fight and this wasn't the first time either...sigh.  Took her to the vet and found out that she had a hole and tear from Chester's bite.  It could've been from them acting up on their hormones or that she was bugging Chester to the point of retaliation.   She got two staples in her ear to stop the bleeding and keep the wound together, her head is all bandaged up and she's wearing an elizabethan collar.  I feel bad for her, but at least she can't get to a few things like the trash and misbehave or make a mess like she normally does.  Hate to admit that it feels nice to get a break from that and just have her be calm for a change.

Here are some pictures and a video of Chelsea:

They may fight like brothers and sisters, but they love each other still....

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Give the dog a bone!

And that's not all....

Tuesday: Got a nagging cough which I obviously got from Tom's virus and been coughing NONSTOP all day.  Had a funny IM conversation with my mom that I'd like to share.  It would kind of show you how our relationship is and what our personalities are like, I have to say that I love my momma to death!

Me: what should i be eating?
Me: i had campbell's chicken and rice soup during lunch and it was nasty
Mom: you're not sick if you are hungry
Me: i wouldnt mind going for chicken tortilla soup, but not mood to cook
Me: im not that hungry really
Mom: are you ever in the mood to cook
Me: its the COUGH thats bothering me
Me: and after sitting for long periods of time, i feel light headed when i get up
Me: nope...and im never in the mood to clean either...a shame, eh?
Mom: boy i can't wait for your life to REALLY be turned upside down.
Me: it HAS to get better than THIS!
Mom: just wait
Mom: till you have that baby
Mom: talk about turning your life upside down...you ain't seen nothin yet
Me: groan...at least she'll be outta my tummy cuz im not one who embraces pregnancy and whoever said that they miss being pregnant is crazy in my book
Mom: i totally agree
Me: haha...maybe ill blog this convo
Mom: nah
Me: whatevs
Mom: whatevs
Me: i think its funny
Me: and i "kiss-fist" you, mom
Mom: be sure to put in the part that you don't like to clean or cook
Mom:
Me: thats the part im saving

 

Now on to the BRIGHTER side of things......

We did get to do ONE fun thing on Monday night and that was touring the birthplace at the hospital during our Lamaze class.  I got to see the labor/delivery room, the post-birth room, the bistro, and the nursery which was so cute! I got to see some babies in the nursery that just came out of the womb and it's amazing to know what can come out of your stomach! I still feel like the baby I'm carrying is just another bodily organ, but it's actually another human being!  Even though I haven't quite experienced it yet, I can pretty much understand why people say that giving birth is one of the most amazing experiences in life.  I'm very much in love with my hospital and it literally feels like a 5 star hotel!  Ok, I may be exaggerating a bit, but it truly is a very nice place!  The rooms are HUGE and it even comes with a sleeper sofa for the support partner.  We also have a whirlpool tub in the bathroom that I don't have in my own home!  I think I'm more excited about my stay than the actual delivery, lol!  Too bad I can't stay there for a week!

You can take a virtual tour of the hospital from this site, although, I must warn you that the pictures do not do it any justice!

http://www.sanfordhealth.org/Services/Womens/Childbirth/BirthPlaceVirtualTour/Index.cfm


Tuesday, February 12, 2008

The ultrasound went great and make no mistake, I'm DEFINITELY having a girl.  Her heartrate was good, she was practicing with her breathing and all measurements were normal and right on target.  The funny thing is that either I wasn't paying close attention or that I missed part of what the interpreter was saying, but at first, I thought she said that the baby weighs "9 lbs" and right there I started crying!!!  "Oh no, I'm only 34 weeks and she's already NINE pounds!?! What am I going to do?!"  They calmed me down and said that she was FOUR pounds and NINE ounces. Oh, imagine the great relief I felt.  Of course we can't predict how much she would weigh when she's born, but we expect that she could be between 7 to 8 lbs. 

And now, meet our daughter!  Some of the pictures aren't clear, but it was the best we could do, so enjoy!

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They said she was sucking her thumb in this picture, but I don't quite see it.

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She definitely has two arms, thank goodness!

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Doesn't she look a little mad in this picture?  Are those nostrils flaring?

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She was such a sweetheart, we can't wait to meet her!


Do you wanna know what Naughty Chelsea has been up to?

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While I was getting ready for work, the dogs were hanging out in the kitchen.  However, Cheslea was hanging high.

Should I rename her to.....

Cheshire the cat?

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She knows she's TOTALLY BUSTED!!!!

And there she goes, *stretching*! Who does she think she is?! Sigh...


Today is an EXCITING day for Tom and I!!!

Why?

Because we're going to do an.....

ULTRASOUND!!!!!

Yayayayay!!! Tom and I so CANNOT wait.  Getting an ultrasound is by far one of the best joys of pregnancy!

Stay tuned for pictures and/or videos to come up soon.  You can bet that we're bringing our camera!

By the way, the little one HAS been moving a lot since yesterday....what a tease!


Sunday, February 10, 2008

Some updates

Almost everytime I start a blog, I always apologize for not blogging or being non-existent for a while...well, taking DeafRoger's advice (http://deafroger.blogspot.com/2008/02/no-apologies.html), I'm not going to do it this time.  


Weather Update -

My dad sent me an email this morning and he said this:

Are you kidding me.  Just saw on national weather news that the wind chill factor in Sioux Falls is -29 degrees.  Do you realize that is 58 degrees colder than your freezer.  I tried to get in our freezer just to see what half of your negative temperature felt like but the freezer was too small. (or I was too big)  Stay inside and keep baby Koch warm today.  Trust all is well.  Love Gpaw

Yep, Gpaw, you got that right! (By the way, don't you love the name Gpaw? It's his nickname as a grandfather...sooo cute!  He loves to sing the ABC song to the grandkids.  It goes something like this, "A,B,C...D, E, F...Geee-Paaw!!")  Anyway, back to point, the weather today and yesterday was so friggin cold, it's brutal! On days like these, I get really homesick and long to go back to Texas where it's warm.  And guess what? It's supposed to SNOW again tomorrow, SIGH!!! I've really had enough of the snow and cold weather that I wouldn't mind seeing some YELLOW grass or even DIRT for that matter!  Hurry February and come spring, I need some warm weather already!!!


Pregnancy Update -

Today, I'm 33 1/2 weeks and it's hard to believe that I have less than two months until my daugther makes her grand entrance into the world.  Although, my body already looks and feels like I'm about to burst!  My doctor said that I am measured to be a week and half ahead of schedule, however, it doesn't necessarily mean that I may deliver early, but that I may have a big baby inside, eeps! This whole pregnancy has actually been one smooth ride, except for a few things here and there.  Luckily, I never got morning sickness nor did I have too many complaints up until now.  I'm finally at the point where I'm just UNCOMFORTABLE and dragging my heavy body up and down the stairs literally takes my breath away.  I do have one MAJOR complaint and that is that I've gained WAY WAY WAY too much weight, pffht.  I'm too embarrassed to even mention how much I weigh now or how much I've gained.  Ideally, a woman is supposed to gain only 25 to 30 pounds and well, unfortanately, I've surpassed that.  That's the main reason why I don't like taking pictures of myself nowadays, I know...being too vain can be a shame sometimes. 

I've gone to the ER three times now and I just went in this morning.  I'm supposed to feel at least five movements each hour and if I don't, I am to call the doctor and go in to check on the baby.  Each and everytime I have gone, much to my relief, the baby turns out to be fine and completely normal.  I was told that at this point, the baby may be running out of room in the belly so she's not exactly able to do gymanastics but maybe stretch her arms here and there.  I do NOT mind going into the ER because it's VERY reassuring to know that all's well in there and if I could, I would go in EVERYDAY!!!  The doctor decided to schedule me another ultrasound this week, even though I was just supposed to do it once throughout my entire pregnancy, and of course, I went bunny ears up cuz I looooove ultrasounds!!! I do wonder why my baby is not as active as I'd like her to be.  Could she be just as lazy as I am and that she loves to sleep all day?  Or could she be deaf?  My mother had three girls, one hearing and two deaf.  She mentioned that my other deaf sister and I didn't move quite as much as my hearing sister did.  Instead of kicks and somersaults, she used to just feel some rolling around and that's pretty much what I feel.  Every now and then, my baby would give me a kick, but it's not exactly like she's having a party down there.  We'll just have to wait and see, but what's MOST important is that she's OKAY and gosh, I just can't wait to get my hands on her.

Have any of you taken a lamaze class?  Tom and I have been going and it's sad to say that we haven't been enjoying it as much as we thought we would.  Maybe it's because the class is on Monday nights and we don't get out til like 9:30 pm.  Needless to say, Mondays are LONG days for us.  It might be the teacher, she babbles and babbles and babbles and everything she says is becoming redundant.  Just drives me crazy that she keeps us there until 9:30 instead of letting us off at 9 pm.  Sometimes I just want to shake her and say, "HELLO!! ALL of us are PREGNANT and most of us have jobs, so just shut up already and let us go home to get some MUCH NEEDED sleep!!"  Of course, the lamaze class will definitely come in handy with all the information that we're learning so we know what to expect on D-Day.  We do breathing and stretching exercises for only 15 minutes and the rest is lecture or watching films.  I have to admit that I CRINGE when I watch films of these woman going into labor and experiencing the PAIN.  The class is trying to teach us that pain is POSITIVE because the end result is that you get a BABY out of the whole ordeal!  There was this one lady in the film screaming, "HELP! Someone please HELP ME!! I can't do this anymore! Get the baby out NOW!!"  And, of course, the partner or husband in the film is just standing there saying, "You're doing great, you can do it, come on, just breathe, hoo..hoo..ha, hoo..hoo..ha."  The interpreters laugh at me because I'm making all these faces that it's so obvious that I'm just TERRIFIED!   You might say that I'm probably more scared than excited about the delivery, but I've been told that you forget ALL about the pain once the baby is out and what you experience is, of course, nothing but a miracle.  We have five more lamaze classes to go and by the end of the series, we would only be a week or two away from delivery, egads!


Other tidbits -

All's well on the home front.  Chester and Chelsea are both doing fine.  Chester is the same laid back dog and just loves to find a comfortable spot to sleep whereas Chelsea loves to find something to chew on whether it's a toy or a valuable item, arugh!  I'm not going to mention what Chelsea has damaged lately because there's no need to add stress onto my blog.   Chester is almost four years old and Chelsea will be two this summer.  I want Chelsea to hurry up and grow out of her immaturity and be as laid back as Chester.  I'm not sure if either of them know what's going on in my belly, but there's one thing I know for sure, they are going to love this baby to death!!!

Tom has been busybusybusy, so busy that I worry he will give himself a heart attack!  He's got TOO many commitments and he's ALWAYS on the go, non-stop.  First, he's got school on Monday through Fridays which he has to commute 75 miles to and from each day.  Then he's got a HUGE project remodeling our basement and his goal is to FINISH before the baby gets here.  At the same time, he's also got several projects with clients (a basement, a photography studio, and an old house).  Annnnnnnd, he still has his job at Home Depot!  My poor husband is like the Energizer bunny, just keeps going, and going, and going!!!  I can't wait to have this baby so he can RELAX once and for all.  I'm due on March 26th, but I'm hoping for an early delivery at least one week before during Tom's spring break so we can be home TOGETHER, as a new family! Fingers crossing!!!

I'm enjoying Project Runway (hope to see Chris, Mr. Fierce and Jillian in the finals), Survivor (rooting for the fans), Celebrity Apprentice (is there ANYONE else besides me watching this show?!), Millionaire Matchmaker and looking forward to watching the new Big Brother 9 season debutting this week.  It's been a season of REALITY tv which I love! I'm so addicted so it, but I'm missing my sitcom/tv shows as well so I'm happy that the writer's strike is coming to an end. 

Hmmm...I guess that's all I have to say for now.  Hopefully I'll be back soon and not wait another six months again!  Goodnight!


Here are some belly shots for y'all!

This is what I look like now

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But this is actually how I feel.... 

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Of course, Chester wanted to get into the action to say hello!

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